Quick answer
When a parent stops driving, ride options include family and friends, volunteer driver programs, public transit and paratransit, senior transportation services through the Area Agency on Aging, rides to medical appointments through some Medicaid plans, VA travel help for eligible veterans, taxis and ride-share, and home care aides who drive. In the Kansas City area, start with Johnson County Aging and Human Services or MARC Aging and Adult Services, or the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116.
Ride options
| Option | Good for | Ask about |
|---|---|---|
| Family and friends | Regular errands and visits | A shared schedule |
| Volunteer driver programs | Medical visits, errands | Advance booking, service area |
| Public transit and paratransit | People who can use transit, or need door-to-door help | Eligibility and scheduling |
| Area Agency on Aging services | Older adults in the service area | Costs and waiting lists |
| Medicaid ride benefits | Medical appointments | Ask your parent's Medicaid plan |
| VA travel | Eligible veterans going to VA care | VA travel pay rules |
| Home care aides | Errands and appointments with help | Mileage and insurance |
| Taxi and ride-share | Flexible trips | App help, cost |
Making the switch easier
- Talk about it early, before a crisis.
- Focus on keeping your parent connected, not on losing the car.
- Try rides together the first few times.
- Keep a written list of ride options and phone numbers by the phone.
When transportation is the main problem
If getting around is one of several growing struggles, independent living or assisted living with scheduled transportation may help.
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Questions families ask
What transportation is available for seniors near me?
Call your Area Agency on Aging or the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116.
Does Medicaid cover rides to the doctor?
Many Medicaid plans include rides to medical appointments. Ask the plan.
Can a home care aide drive my parent?
Many agencies offer it. Ask about mileage and insurance.
How do I know when a parent should stop driving?
Watch for close calls, getting lost, or new dents, and talk to their doctor.