Quick answer
You can find a caregiver through a home care agency (they screen, employ and back up caregivers), by hiring privately (often lower cost, but you handle screening, payroll and backup), or through family, sometimes paid by a Medicaid or VA program. The 2025 median rate for home care was $34 an hour in Kansas and $33 in Missouri. (800) 614-8388 and we'll help you find agencies near you.
Your options
| Option | Pros | Cons |
|---|---|---|
| Home care agency | Screening, training, supervision, backup, payroll handled | Usually higher cost |
| Private hire | Often lower hourly cost; you choose directly | You handle background checks, taxes, backup |
| Family caregiver | Familiar, trusted | Burnout; may need pay through a program |
| Mix | Flexible | Takes coordination |
Start with a care list
Write down what's needed: bathing, dressing, meals, medications, driving, company, overnight help. Note days and times. This makes interviews much easier.
Interviewing a caregiver
- Ask about experience with similar needs, including dementia.
- Ask how they'd handle a fall or an emergency.
- Check references and a background check.
- Have them meet your parent; watch how they connect.
- Agree on duties, schedule and pay in writing.
If you hire privately
- Run a background check and call references.
- Ask a tax professional about household employer rules.
- Have a backup plan for sick days.
- Protect your parent's money: don't give caregivers access to accounts or cards. The CFPB has guides for families managing a parent's money.
Keeping care steady
- Check in often with your parent and the caregiver.
- Drop by at different times.
- Watch for changes in mood, weight, money or the home.
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Questions families ask
How do I find a caregiver for my elderly parent?
Use a home care agency, hire privately, or arrange family care. Start with a list of needs.
How much does a caregiver cost?
The 2025 median for home care was $34 an hour in Kansas and $33 in Missouri.
Is it cheaper to hire a private caregiver?
Often, but you take on screening, payroll and backup.
Can I get paid to care for my parent?
Sometimes, through Medicaid or VA programs. See paid family caregivers.