Paying for care

Using a life insurance policy to pay for care

A parent's life insurance policy can sometimes become a source of money for care. Each option has trade-offs, so it pays to understand them before calling the insurer.

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A life insurance policy may help pay for care in several ways: an accelerated death benefit or long-term care rider (if the policy has one), borrowing against or withdrawing cash value (permanent policies), surrendering the policy for its cash value, or selling it to a third party in a life settlement. Each reduces what beneficiaries get, and some can affect taxes or Medicaid eligibility. Call the insurer first, and talk to a financial advisor before selling a policy. (800) 614-8388 to talk through care options.

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The options

OptionHow it worksTrade-off
Accelerated death benefit or LTC riderPays part of the death benefit early if conditions in the policy are metLowers the death benefit
Policy loanBorrow against cash value of a permanent policyUnpaid loans and interest reduce the death benefit
Cash withdrawal or surrenderTake cash value, or cancel the policy for itCoverage reduced or ends; possible taxes
Life settlementSell the policy to a third party for more than cash value, less than death benefitBeneficiaries get nothing from the policy

Steps to take

  1. Find the policy and call the insurer.
  2. Ask about riders, cash value, loan terms and surrender value.
  3. Ask a tax professional about tax effects.
  4. If Medicaid may be needed later, talk to an elder law attorney first.
  5. If considering a life settlement, compare several offers and understand fees.

Other ways to pay

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Questions families ask

Can you use life insurance to pay for assisted living?

Sometimes, through riders, cash value, policy loans, surrender or a life settlement.

What is a life settlement?

Selling a life insurance policy to a third party for a lump sum.

Does term life insurance have cash value?

Generally no. Cash value options apply to permanent policies.

Will using life insurance affect Medicaid?

It can. Talk to an elder law attorney before acting.

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