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Long-distance caregiving: how to help a parent from far away

Living far from an aging parent brings its own worry. You can still do a lot from a distance, with the right people and paperwork in place.

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To care for a parent from far away, build a local team (a neighbor, friend, or care manager), get permission to talk to doctors, gather key documents and contacts in one place, set up technology for check-ins and alerts, and make each visit count. A geriatric care manager or your parent's Area Agency on Aging can be your eyes on the ground. (800) 614-8388 if your parent is in the Kansas City area.

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Build a local team

  • A trusted neighbor or friend who can check in.
  • Your parent's doctor and pharmacist.
  • A geriatric care manager for assessments and oversight.
  • A home care agency if daily help is needed.
  • The local Area Agency on Aging.

Get the paperwork ready

  • Medical releases so doctors can talk to you.
  • Power of attorney for finances and health care.
  • A list of medications, doctors, insurance, accounts and key contacts.
  • Copies of ID, Medicare and insurance cards.

Use technology

  • Video calls on a simple device.
  • Medical alert systems with fall detection.
  • Online access to bills and patient portals, with permission.
  • Shared calendars among siblings.

Make visits count

  • Look around: food in the fridge, unopened mail, bills, the car, the house.
  • Go to a doctor visit together.
  • Meet the neighbors and local helpers.
  • Talk about what your parent wants.

Share the work

Siblings far and near can split tasks: one handles bills, another calls doctors, another plans visits.

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Questions families ask

How do I care for my parent from another state?

Build a local team, get paperwork in place, use technology and plan visits well.

Who can check on my parent if I live far away?

A neighbor, friend, geriatric care manager or home care agency.

How do I find local services for my parent?

Call the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116 to reach the local Area Agency on Aging.

What should I look for on a visit?

Food, mail, bills, medications, the state of the home and your parent's mood and health.

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