--- title: "Senior Living Options: The Types of Senior Living Explained" description: "The main types of senior living, from 55+ communities to nursing homes, what each includes, who it fits, and what it costs in Kansas and Missouri." url: https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/senior-living-options/ updated: 2026-10-09 site: Senior Transition Assistance --- Senior living options # Senior living options: the types of senior living, explained There are more choices than "stay home" or "nursing home." Here is each type of senior living in plain words, from least help to most, so you can see where your family fits. Talk it through with a person[ (800) 614-8388 ](tel:+18006148388) Free. We listen, explain your options, and introduce you to a few that fit. You decide. Quick answer The main senior living options are 55+ communities, independent living, assisted living, memory care and nursing homes, plus care at home. They differ mainly in how much daily help is included. In 2025 assisted living had a median cost of $5,975 a month in Kansas and $5,400 in Missouri. Not sure which fits? [(800) 614-8388](tel:+18006148388) and talk it through with a person, free. **Last updated October 9, 2026** Costs are published medians or typical ranges with a named source, never quotes. Every community and agency prices differently. **On this page** 1. [ The options, from least help to most](#g-the-options-from-least-help-to-most) 2. [How to tell which one fits](#g-how-to-tell-which-one-fits) 3. [What each option costs](#g-what-each-option-costs) 4. [Who pays](#g-who-pays) 5. [Kansas City: two states, two sets of rules](#g-kansas-city-two-states-two-sets-of-rules) 6. [Questions](#g-faq) ## The options, from least help to most | Option | What it is | Who it usually fits | |---|---|---| | 55+ community | Homes or apartments for people 55 and older, usually with no care included | Active, independent people who want less upkeep and neighbors their age | | Independent living | Apartments with meals, housekeeping and activities, but no hands-on care | People who manage on their own but want company and no chores | | Assisted living | An apartment plus help with bathing, dressing, medications and meals | People who need a hand with daily tasks but not round-the-clock nursing | | Memory care | A secured setting with staff trained in dementia care | People living with dementia who may wander or need constant cueing | | Nursing home | 24-hour skilled nursing and medical care | People with serious medical needs, or short-term rehab after a hospital stay | | Care at home | Paid help that comes to the house, by the hour | People who want to stay home and need a few hours or more of help | ## How to tell which one fits Start with the person, not the building. Ask three questions: 1. What help is needed every day? Make a short list: meals, medications, bathing, getting around, remembering. 2. Is anything unsafe right now? Falls, wandering, missed medications and leaving the stove on change the answer. 3. What matters most to them? Staying near church, a friend, a doctor or a grandchild often decides the area before the type. If the list is mostly about loneliness and upkeep, [independent living](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/independent-living/) or a [55 and older community](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/55-plus-communities/) may be enough. If it includes daily personal care, look at [assisted living](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/assisted-living/). If memory loss is driving the risk, look at [memory care](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/memory-care/). ## What each option costs Monthly median cost, CareScout Cost of Care Survey 2025 | Care | Kansas | Missouri | U.S. | |---|---|---|---| | Home care, 44 hrs a week | $6,435 | $6,292 | $6,673 | | Adult day, 5 days a week | $4,333 | $2,058 | $2,058 | | Assisted living, 1 bedroom | $5,975 | $5,400 | $6,200 | | Nursing home, shared room | $8,669 | $6,741 | $9,581 | | Nursing home, private room | $9,064 | $7,604 | $10,798 | Medians, not quotes: half of providers charge more and half charge less. Source: [CareScout Cost of Care Survey 2025](https://pro.genworth.com/riiproweb/productinfo/pdf/282102.pdf). The CareScout survey does not publish figures for independent living or memory care. See [what senior living costs](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/costs/) for how those are priced. ## Who pays Most senior living is paid privately, from income, savings or the sale of a home. Medicare does not pay for long-term custodial care such as assisted living. Medicaid may help with care for people who qualify, and wartime veterans or surviving spouses may qualify for a VA pension with Aid and Attendance. See [how to pay for senior care](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/paying-for-it/). ## Kansas City: two states, two sets of rules In the Kansas City metro, the same drive can cross State Line. Kansas and Missouri license communities differently, run different Medicaid programs and post inspection reports in different places. Start with [Kansas](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/locations/kansas/) or [Missouri](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/locations/missouri/), or call your Area Agency on Aging through the Eldercare Locator at 1-800-677-1116. ### Want a person to help you sort this out? Tell us what's going on and we'll explain the options near you and introduce you to a few that fit. Free, and you decide what happens next. [ (800) 614-8388 ](tel:+18006148388)[Have us call you](#g-form) ## Questions families ask ### What is the difference between independent living and assisted living? Independent living includes services like meals and housekeeping but no hands-on personal care. Assisted living adds help with bathing, dressing, medications and other daily tasks. ### What is the least expensive senior living option? It depends on how much help is needed. A 55+ community or staying home with a few hours of help can cost less than assisted living, but full-time help at home can cost more. Compare the all-in monthly figure for each. ### Does Medicare pay for senior living? No. Medicare does not pay for long-term custodial care such as assisted living or independent living. It can cover short skilled nursing stays after a qualifying hospital stay. ### How do I find senior living near me? Call us at (800) 614-8388 or use the form. We'll explain the options in your part of the Kansas City area and introduce you to a few that fit. It's free. ## Sources - [CareScout Cost of Care Survey 2025, Median Cost Data Tables (survey July to November 2025; median cost data tables, published March 2026)](https://pro.genworth.com/riiproweb/productinfo/pdf/282102.pdf) - [Medicare.gov: Long-term care coverage](https://www.medicare.gov/coverage/long-term-care) - [Eldercare Locator (U.S. Administration for Community Living), 1-800-677-1116](https://eldercare.acl.gov/) ## Related guides - [How we help](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/) - [What it costs](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/costs/) - [Assisted living](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/assisted-living/) - [Independent living](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/independent-living/) - [Memory care](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/memory-care/) - [Care at home](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/care-at-home/) - [Adult day care](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/adult-day-care/) - [Life plan communities (CCRCs)](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/ccrc/) - [Geriatric care managers](https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/geriatric-care-manager/) --- Canonical page: https://seniortransitionassistance.com/help/senior-living-options/